If you are looking for a hookup, try out the top-rated dating sites. Many of them have mobile applications and allow you to chat with matches. Some of them even offer live video chat. You can also choose to pay for premium memberships.
For those who are more outgoing and feel comfortable approaching people, bars are a good option for finding a one night stand. Just make sure to keep conversations short and sweet.
Online dating sites and apps
When it comes to finding love in the digital age, there are a lot of sites to choose from. Some apps – such as Tinder – are well known for pulling in singles from all over the country, while others – like Match or eHarmony – focus on helping you find serious long-term relationships.
But if you’re in the market for casual connections, these sites and apps will give you a reliable hunting ground. Just don’t expect to have immediate success – it takes time to work up the courage to text someone or get left on read.
A few of our favorites are HER, which is 100% LGBTQ and women-focused and offers quick sexual encounters. We also recommend Hinge, which offers a user-friendly mobile app that’s easy to use and ticks all the right boxes for a hookup site. It’s free to download and even has handy conversation starters if dropping opening lines isn’t your thing.
Parties
If you’re planning to hook up with a girl you just met, make sure you clean your apartment before she comes over. No one wants to eat your leftover tequila-soaked food and breath that smells of drunk-food-and-dirty-sheets.
Unlike other dating websites, Tenderbang facilitates local hook ups by using information found on profiles to make location-based suggestions. This approach removes the need to bar hop and eliminates time-wasting. However, if members don’t specify the nature of their fling on their profiles, it may take longer to find like-minded local singles.
This Meatpacking newcomer is packed shoulder-to-shoulder with a young, in-the-know crowd that dances to electronic and hip hop music under a verdant ceiling. A swanky showroom, an upstairs lounge and a downstairs bar make this place a great spot to grab a drink and catch some action. A 2 to 7pm happy hour serves cheap frozen margaritas to keep the party going. It’s a good idea to wear comfortable shoes, since there is plenty of dancing and walking.
Concerts
Bars tend to be a clear choice in terms of hook-ups. Ask anyone and I wager that more than you’d imagine have at some point hooked up with a sensuous blonde at a bar. Start by in search of bars in your area; ensure that they’re prominent among unmarried women. Spice it up, make sure there’s music playing and perhaps a real time band. Add some waitresses and this is absolutely an option to consider. Confidence is crucial here so have a drink to loosen up if you are bashful.
If you’re going with friends, coordinate a carpool. This will cut down on parking fees and gas costs. You should also plan to eat before you leave and bring snacks, water and toilet paper. If your friends are habitually late, you can try to arrange a neutral meeting point like someone’s house or an open park. This will prevent you from getting stuck in a long line before the concert begins.